Feedback is important, and poor feedback does more damage than good.
What does good feedback look like?
1. Be Objective
2. Build Confidence
3. 6:1 Rule
4. Focus on what you want
5. Be Specific
6. What you pay attention to, is what you get more of
Further Reading and References:
Matt Killingsworth, research Psychologist Demonstrates the effect of positive feedback https://youtu.be/94pEPMULFKc
Feedback monster by Deloitte Touche Tohmatsu Limited, 2017 https://www2.deloitte.com/content/dam/insights/us/articles/3656_Feedback-monsters/DUP_Avoiding-the-feedback-monsters.pdf
Nonviolent Communication: A Language of Life: Life-Changing Tools for Healthy Relationships (Nonviolent Communication Guides) 3rd Edition by Marshall B. Rosenberg 2015 September 1